Motivation – You Get What You Reward
There is a program currently running on BBC Television in
the United Kingdom called – "Little Angels". It is a series that provides
Help and advice for parents who are experiencing the behavior
Difficulties with their children. I'm sure there are similar
Programs in other parts of the world. The children are
often out of control, will not do what they are told and
Usually dominate the family.
Part of the program shows how to deal with parents
Child during treatment withStatement from a clinical
Psychologists through a headset. The psychologist Watches
what's going on and constantly told the parents to reward
the child with words of support if they are to do something
well. If the child misbehaves, the instructions of the
to ignore and leave them alone.
There is a great temptation for parents on the complaint of
Child, but that is not prohibited by the psychologist.
There is not a whole lot of difference when dealingwith
Adults who behave badly. If you are a manager of people, you think
for a moment about the "difficult" employees, never seems
Do things quite right and takes so much time
and attention. Perhaps that is precisely what he or she wants – the
Time and attention, and how long they get what
they want – they will continue to be "difficult."
If you are a "difficult" team member or staff to try
Focus on what they dowell and they have them.
Spend less time ignoring and even if they
misbehave. It is not uncommon for managers to invest, by 90
Percent of their energy responding to negative performance
and only 10 percent strengthening of the positive development. If
They reward "good behavior – you'll get more. If you
"Reward" bad behavior – you'll get more.